Keeping your sunny side up.

Since last week, I have been doing research on cancer treatment outcomes.  Our closest hospital has a "worse than expected" survival rate and low nursing staff ratios. 

We spoke and determined it was not the right place for the love of my life to have treatment, surgery or recovery.  We have an appointment and may have some preliminary testing done, but have already made an appointment for a second opinion at a regional cancer hospital.  I have learned that many patients get a second and even a third opinion.  Each hospital has a different approach.  One has you seen by a surgical oncologist first, others have you see the medical oncologist.  Some do 90% of the footwork for you, others hand you a flashlight and have you find your own way.

The best advice we have received has been from cancer survivors.  Keep a positive outlook.